Intro: I want to start with a picture in your mind You and your spouse have been having the same argument over and over. There are some slight changes to the argument, but the essence of it is the same. What could it be about A husband saying to his wife “You never want to have sex when I do” A wife saying “I can’t believe how much money you are spending on things” A wife saying to here husband “you are always on your phone when we talk” You have told yourself you won’t ha